If your child is in the public schools most likely to teach some kind of sex education for 5 th or 6 th. Even if not, to learn that someone of this age or earlier. If the information comes from friends or classmates, you may not be presented in a thoughtful and appropriate, and often incorrect. The best place for a young person to discover and learn about sex should be one that they care about most: their parents.
1) Start Early
The average age of teens having sex for the first time is 15 for girls and 14 for boys. It is not entirely uncommon for public schools that have one or more seventh graders pregnant. Addressing the issue of sex with your child should happen much earlier than many parents think. While may depend culture found I recommend have some conversations serious with your child least age thirteen. If your child is doing questions or listen things early can to be addressed issue somewhat.
Some parents wait until their teens and are dating or a long term relationship for even the above topic. Although I know that intentions are good parents, are often too late. I think parents should start to let your teenager know about early sexual norms. Although care must be taken, it is better to be too early than too late. The best thing is to help a young person to help prevent errors try to correct mistakes later sex.
2) Go slowly
Although it may seem strange, the best strategy is to avoid "the talk" about sex. This conversation tends to be too fast, and the adolescent is often too embarrassed to ask questions. Addressing sexual issues should be a progression. The conversation should not be a dramatic thunderstorm passes, but a slow drizzle. Give your child time to get into your interiorUtilice a conversation as a starting point, but do not feel obliged to tell everything you know or be too graphic. Brings problems in a normal conversation.
3) Be intentional
Look for strategic points of daily life to affirm or deny sexual decisions. Note that you will have to be intentional about addressing sex, or you can not always give quality time and thought that needs it.
4) Use a framework
When my daughter turned 13, went through a book on purity with her in the course of 4 weeks. The time allowed for a high quality conversation to emerge, and given the opportunity to think about the questions you may have and ask them during the month. At the end of the month, communication about sex was much less awkward than it was at first, and now I knew I could talk to us anytime about serious issues like this.
There are many sources of information focusing on adolescent sex out there for you. Try to find something that goes far beyond biology and reading through it before hand with them. It is important to talk to your teen about the importance of sex and share their values.
Teens need to be well informed about sex before they risk experiencing sexual situation. To provide an open environment for questions, not to talk about it, and make a point to educate him or her, your child will be well prepared for the present situations in high school, preparatory and secondary schools.
